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This webpage is dedicated to the Womanly act of Head Covering as referred to in 1 Corinthians 11:3-16.

But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God.  (4)  Every man praying or prophesying, having his head covered, dishonoreth his head.  (5)  But every woman that prayeth or prophesieth with her head uncovered dishonoreth her head: for that is even all one as if she were shaven.  (6)  For if the woman be not covered, let her also be shorn: but if it be a shame for a woman to be shorn or shaven, let her be covered.  (7)  For a man indeed ought not to cover his head, forasmuch as he is the image and glory of God: but the woman is the glory of the man.  (8)  For the man is not of the woman; but the woman of the man.  (9)  Neither was the man created for the woman; but the woman for the man.  (10)  For this cause ought the woman to have power on her head because of the angels.  (11)  Nevertheless neither is the man without the woman, neither the woman without the man, in the Lord.  (12)  For as the woman is of the man, even so is the man also by the woman; but all things of God.  (13)  Judge in yourselves: is it comely that a woman pray unto God uncovered?  (14)  Doth not even nature itself teach you, that, if a man have long hair, it is a shame unto him?  (15)  But if a woman have long hair, it is a glory to her: for her hair is given her for a covering.  (16)  But if any man seem to be contentious, we have no such custom, neither the churches of God.

After pondering and praying over this passage a good while I have come to believe that when praying, it is a good thing for a woman to wear a scarf, or veil or bonnet on her head.  If you are trying to "pray without ceasing" then it would make sense to wear the veil all the time.  Or at least during the day, and especially when out in public.  I have found that I prefer to be in public with the veil on, because it affords me a great deal of protection from the rest of society.  Instead of being flustered with my lack of ability of understand and fit into society at large, other folks don't even expect me to know how to make sense of consumeristic modern day gobbledy gook.  The veil is a lovely symbol that I am not a part of the everyday world, and it is a relief to be able to stop trying to pretend like I am.  I think it is a generous act to allow others the luxury of identifying me quickly and easily in a simplistic fashion.  With the veil on, other folks can look at me and file me away under "acceptable social outsider" and get on with their lives.  When they don't feel compelled to spend so much time figuring me out, then I am left at peace and am able to get on with my own business of living in the way I understand it. 

My Journey to the land of Veiled Women

I first read about head covering or veiling on a Christian Women's message board.  The lady who mentioned it had only been doing it for a short time, and was kind enough to share many links about it with me.  The more I read up on it, the more convicted I became that God was calling me to follow this practice.  I made a few scarves from fabric I already had and placed one on my head.  It took me a while to figure out ways of wearing the scarf attractively, but after trial and error, I settled on a method which worked for me.  My husband Fred took little notice of my head gear, but he did notice the changes it effected in our marriage.

...a struggle which had been raging in me all of my adult life was put to rest.

It seemed like the veil helped me to understand better the lessons which God had been offering me for so long.  I found myself able to hold my tongue in situations where it had before eluded me.  My patience seemed to increase into a vastness which my family delighted in exploring.  My old struggles with body image, and vanity disappeared out the window, seldom to be seen or heard from again.  My children's needs were easier to meet, because I was no longer focusing on worldly possessions and notions. My priorities were easier to set, including God and my family at the top of my list, where they belong.  It was as if a struggle which had been raging in me all of my adult life was put to rest.

...others thought I had gone over the edge.

Sure some people looked at me like I was a member of a cult that oppressed women recreationally, while others merely thought I had gone over the edge.  Through God's Grace, these folks were among the minority.  Those who know me, can see the woman I am becoming as I submit myself to God's authority. In my heart, I know the veil is a symbol of my dignity and value.  The veil offers me protection from ogling men.  It speaks in no uncertain terms that I am much more than a sex object.  My role as mother and wife is an honorable and sacred one.  I will not be belittled into succumbing to the latest fad our consumeristic society has delegated to the female form this year, or this decade.  I will not waste my family's precious resources on achieving or maintaining a superficial exterior which speaks little of my internal virtues. 

...I am learning to be a good steward of His gifts

My body is truly a temple to the Lord.  I don't have to display it to win worldly approval.  God has custom designed my face and body and for my use while on this planet.  How disgraceful for me to cinch my body awkwardly, or color the face which the Master has so carefully crafted for my personal use.  The Lord considers me His precious daughter.  Certainly I can trust His divine view of me, over that of modern society's.  He has given me plenty enough to meet all of my needs, and I am learning to be a good steward of His gifts.

May the Lord Bless you,
Maggie


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